The Truth About Jealousy and Swinging

Jealousy is an obvious issue that you and your partner need to address before you even begin swinging. Not dealing with this potential problem before hand will certainly come back to bite you in the rear in a very big way. If you are the jealous sort (particularly about sexual infidelity), you should stay away from swinging. The lifestyle really is not for everyone, and you should not feel ashamed or upset that you become jealous about the emotional and sexual ties to your spouse or committed partner. Continue reading

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How Do I Get My Wife Into Swinging?

Maybe so....maybe no

This is a question that we get asked a lot, and it really doesn’t have an easy answer.  The first step is to take an honest look at your relationship and decide if this is something you really want to pursue.  Swinging often sounds better in theory than it is in practice.  Don’t get me wrong…we have had some great times and met some of the best people in the Lifestyle, but we’re not you.  The last thing you want to do is get her involved in swinging only to find out you can’t handle seeing her with other people.  It might be kind of hard to get that genie back into the bottle. Continue reading

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Swinging Etiquette

Ummmm.... No...

Emily Post, an American author whose name is synonymous with manners defined etiquette as: a code of behaviour based on thoughtfulness. Etiquette is used in all things social from how to act at work, to acceptable behaviour in church and at weddings. What is proper and improper in swinging is no different. Swinging etiquette does not require the same manners as when meeting the Queen of England but there ARE a certain set of ‘should’ and ‘should nots’ that are good to follow to make your Lifestyle experience a smoother one. These are not unlike general rules of etiquette when one is in the dating scene. Continue reading

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