The Swing Scene Presents…A Beginner’s Guide to Swinging

We decided to take some of what, we at least, considered to be our best information and advice on getting started in the Lifestyle and put it in an easy to read e-book.  This is not intended to be a recruiting guide.  The first half talks about how to get involved.  The second half is designed to help the newbie sidestep some of the common landmines all couples must learn to recognize if they are going to be successful in Swinging.  Here are a few excerpts:

“Disclaimer:

Let me be clear about one thing. I am not an expert in relationships. I do not claim to have all the answers, or even the right ones. What I do have however, is experience in the Lifestyle and based on that experience I will tell you this….swinging can and will destroy your marriage if you go into it with false pretenses or unrealistic expectations. Swinging in real life does not look anything like late night cable. Swinging can open a Pandora’s Box of jealousy, insecurities, pettiness and selfishness that few couples can survive intact. The opposite is also true. When approached correctly, the Lifestyle can be one of the most exciting, titillating experiences a couple can share. Swingers that are successful in the Lifestyle are some of the best communicating, most honest, committed couples you will ever encounter. ” Continue reading

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Swinging Vacations II – Lifestyle Cruises!

Can I Drive?

Can I Drive??

Ahhhh…there is nothing quite like a cruise!  The blue water, the salty air, the live music on the pool deck, the naked people glistening with suntan lotion…. Wait, what was that?  Naked people!  Yes there are very few places that rival a cruise ship when it comes to Lifestyle vacationing.  There are almost as many different options on the water as there are on dry land.  There are small groups being organized all the time, and usually two or three times a year they will book entire ships!  Imagine, if you will, 2,000 to 3,000 swingers loose on a ship with absolutely no “vanillas” around.  Crazy fun times!  If you have the money or can get the right small group together you can even charter yachts to ferry you and your merry group of naked friends around the islands on your own itinerary.  Yes, there are charter companies who cater exclusively to the Lifestyle community.  So with that in mind, let’s explore a few options in more detail.  We will work our way from the most basic to the most outlandish in Lifestyle cruising. Continue reading

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Swinging Vacations

Lifestyle Resorts have the best beaches.....

Lifestyle Resorts have the best beaches…..

One of the byproducts of being in the Lifestyle is you tend to look at “normal” outings in a different context.  I know that when Mrs. Toto and I are traveling, whether a vacation or just a weekend getaway, we tend to start sizing up the couples we encounter on our trips as       if they were potential swinger friends.  This is probably because most of the people we socialize with in our day to day activities are in the Lifestyle.  When 90% of your friendship base are swingers, it sometimes slips your mind that that is not the norm.  It is not that we can’t separate the two, it is just that we don’t always want too…

Face it, an adult vacation or weekend retreat is tailor made for Lifestyle activities.  You are out to relax…by definition, you don’t have the kids along…and there is something about a strange hotel room that brings out the horny in people! Continue reading

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