Identifying Fellow Swingers

Swinging is normally at its best when it is played down. More experienced and mature swingers will freely admit to the perils of shouting your lifestyle preference from the rooftops. Like anything that is not widely accepted in the mainstream, swinging is treated with fear, suspicion, and even just sheer discomfort by the majority of individuals who have not truly looked into the idea. While swinging is certainly not for everyone, those who decide that it is the best personal choice for for them and their partner after a decent amount of research and self reflection normally are happier with their decision and within their life as a whole. Yet, that happiness normally only stays constant when the people involved in the lifestyle keep things on the down low.

This concept of keeping quiet about the lifestyle is not new and will probably be a around for a very long time—at least until the mainstream finally recognizes it as a separate lifestyle which is to be respected like the others. However, all swingers will start to notice that there are certain drawbacks which are associated with not sharing your joy. While keeping the lifestyle to yourself and only those who you have carefully arranged to swing with is truly necessary for the time being, being happy means that you want to share your happiness. The best way to do this is of course to reach out to friends and family. It becomes a problem when your current friends and family members do not truly understand or accept the lifestyle though. How can you reach out to share your enjoyment with others when you do not know who you will offend or you can trust? Continue reading

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6 Do’s and Don’ts to Make Your Swinger Profile Stand Out

First Impressions Count!

While we always encourage complete honesty when you design your swinger profile, there are certainly things you can do to make sure you are making as positive an impression as possible.  You will notice as you browse profiles on your swingers site of choice, that you will spend no more than a few moments on most profiles.   Here are a few do’s and don’ts we have picked up over the years.  As always, everyone has his or her preference, these suggestions simply reflect ours. Continue reading

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So…. How Do We Get Started Swinging?

Setting up their profile..

So you have had all the discussions, laid out the ground rules, and had some awesome sex while talking through your swinging fantasies. What is the next step? How do you actually get out there and meet other swingers? Thankfully we have the internet and its vast resources to help us on our quest to find the most compatible swinger prospects. There are many websites out there which the aspiring swinger can use to narrow their search and get the “lay” of the land. Continue reading

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