Is Being a Swinger Still Taboo?

secretSo at a party recently, after many a beverage was consumed, someone I’m talking to points toward another couple and said, “I think they’re swingers”. I looked at them and asked why they thought that. They shrugged and evaded a real answer. They danced around a word or two and then the conversation changed to a different topic. I later asked the person pointed to if they were swingers as someone claimed they were. Maybe I was just pushing an envelope or testing boundaries….but I was also curious to know the answer. As many more of a beverage had been consumed at that point, she just smiled, giggled and said, “I don’t know” all coyly and bashful and trotted off. Continue reading

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Fifty Shades of Christmas

Good Morning Dear….Now get on your knees….

With the holiday season upon us, it is time for The Swing Scene’s first annual Lifestyle gift giving guide.

The list of possible bedroom accessories is as endless as your imagination.  We thought with the recent success of the Fifty Shades book series we would make the theme of the first gift guide……. BDSM!

BDSM is a compound acronym for Bondage, Discipline, Dominance/submission, and Sadomasochism.  Don’t worry… sounds scary, but the truth is… it is what you want it to be. It can run the gambit from fuzzy handcuffs and lite spanking to latex body suits and nipple clamps.  Besides…what married couple doesn’t wish they had a ball gag every now and then?  If you don’t know anything about BDSM or don’t know if your partner is ready to give it a shot, put a book in their stocking and see what their reaction is!

We will start with the tame and work our way up….. Continue reading

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TheSwingScene Writes a Book! (Why?)

A couple of months ago we were looking at the website metrics, something we seldom do, and noticed that quite a few of the visitors to TheSwingScene had reached the site using the search term “Swinger Stories”.  We found this odd since we have never published what I would consider to be “swinger stories”.   We did find where we had used the tag on a couple of news releases we posted.  While the primary focus of the site has always been to provide real information for couples interested in the Lifestyle, had we forgotten that the Lifestyle is in fact an erotic undertaking?  It is fine to talk about the nuts and bolts of how to be a swinger, but what about the erotic side?  What about the fun part?

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