Swinging Vacations II – Lifestyle Cruises!

Can I Drive?

Can I Drive??

Ahhhh…there is nothing quite like a cruise!  The blue water, the salty air, the live music on the pool deck, the naked people glistening with suntan lotion…. Wait, what was that?  Naked people!  Yes there are very few places that rival a cruise ship when it comes to Lifestyle vacationing.  There are almost as many different options on the water as there are on dry land.  There are small groups being organized all the time, and usually two or three times a year they will book entire ships!  Imagine, if you will, 2,000 to 3,000 swingers loose on a ship with absolutely no “vanillas” around.  Crazy fun times!  If you have the money or can get the right small group together you can even charter yachts to ferry you and your merry group of naked friends around the islands on your own itinerary.  Yes, there are charter companies who cater exclusively to the Lifestyle community.  So with that in mind, let’s explore a few options in more detail.  We will work our way from the most basic to the most outlandish in Lifestyle cruising. Continue reading

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Swinging Vacations

Lifestyle Resorts have the best beaches.....

Lifestyle Resorts have the best beaches…..

One of the byproducts of being in the Lifestyle is you tend to look at “normal” outings in a different context.  I know that when Mrs. Toto and I are traveling, whether a vacation or just a weekend getaway, we tend to start sizing up the couples we encounter on our trips as       if they were potential swinger friends.  This is probably because most of the people we socialize with in our day to day activities are in the Lifestyle.  When 90% of your friendship base are swingers, it sometimes slips your mind that that is not the norm.  It is not that we can’t separate the two, it is just that we don’t always want too…

Face it, an adult vacation or weekend retreat is tailor made for Lifestyle activities.  You are out to relax…by definition, you don’t have the kids along…and there is something about a strange hotel room that brings out the horny in people! Continue reading

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Swingers and DRAMA…

Not a good sign….

Drama is a term thrown around quite a lot in the Lifestyle. Simply put, drama happens when people bring either their personal, or their relationship, issues into Lifestyle situations. It is my opinion that everyone and every couple have drama at one time or another. How people handle that drama goes a long way in ultimately determining how successful they will be in the Lifestyle. That being said, what do you do when the people you are with suddenly erupt at each other or worse yet, at you? Don’t assume just because you and your partner are on the same page that others you may be with are equally in tune. We have had situations go from, “Wow…we scored tonight!” to “Shit…I hope they don’t have a gun!” in the blink of an eye! Trust me when I tell you, there is nothing you can do to salvage that kind of situation. Continue reading

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