Swinging Vacations

Lifestyle Resorts have the best beaches.....

Lifestyle Resorts have the best beaches…..

One of the byproducts of being in the Lifestyle is you tend to look at “normal” outings in a different context.  I know that when Mrs. Toto and I are traveling, whether a vacation or just a weekend getaway, we tend to start sizing up the couples we encounter on our trips as       if they were potential swinger friends.  This is probably because most of the people we socialize with in our day to day activities are in the Lifestyle.  When 90% of your friendship base are swingers, it sometimes slips your mind that that is not the norm.  It is not that we can’t separate the two, it is just that we don’t always want too…

Face it, an adult vacation or weekend retreat is tailor made for Lifestyle activities.  You are out to relax…by definition, you don’t have the kids along…and there is something about a strange hotel room that brings out the horny in people!  Fortunately, if you realize this upfront, there are many vacation options which cater to the Swinger crowd.

Swinger Resorts

One of our first, and probably most memorable, Lifestyle-centric vacations was our trip to Hedonism III in Jamaica.  We were still fairly new to the Lifestyle scene and had never even been to a nude beach much less a swinger resort!  We were offered the opportunity to go by another couple we had become very good friends with.  They had a couple of free vouchers and offered them to us if we could pay the airfare as well as three additional nights.  Seven nights for the price of three was too good a deal to pass up!  I will admit one thing…there are few things in life that will motivate you to exercise like the realization that you are going to spend a week at a resort in the bright Caribbean sun, buck naked with a few of your closest friends…and a couple of hundred strangers!  There was considerable angst on my part (Mr. Toto) leading up to that trip.  We even took a group trip out to the local nudie beach to acclimate to the whole public nakedness situation.  Which by the way…wasn’t that big of a deal.  Turns out, getting naked in public wasn’t quite as stressful as I had imagined it to be, there is always someone paler and less attractive strutting around.

The resort itself was very nice.  It was an “all-inclusive” resort.  The price you paid upfront  included your room, your meals, and, most importantly, all your liquor!  This is not a bad way of doing things… Personally I thought Jamaica was a pretty island but other than a couple of excursions, we never left the resort.  There was a nude side and prude side and let’s just say…the prude side was pretty empty!  One of the things we found interesting was the fact that one side of your shower was basically a full window that you could open up and bathe in full view of anyone lucky enough to be strolling past.  Very popular with the exibitionists…of which there seemed to be many!  The food was fine, the locals were very friendly, and we made lots of new friends.  You can be as daring as you like or just sit back and watch the show.  We never encountered any pushy folks… everyone seemed to be very respectful and generally just happy to be there.

Unfortunately, Hedo III closed down a couple of years ago.  There is still a Hedonism II on Jamaica that I hear is just as much fun.  Actually there are several resorts that cater to the Lifestyle crowd.    Look up our friends at Dream Pleasure Tours for more options and additional information.  Next post we’ll look at Swinger Cruises.  Nothing like a few hundred like minded people stuck on a boat in the middle of the ocean….what’s the worst (or best) that can happen???

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