Is Being a Swinger Still Taboo?

secretSo at a party recently, after many a beverage was consumed, someone I’m talking to points toward another couple and said, “I think they’re swingers”. I looked at them and asked why they thought that. They shrugged and evaded a real answer. They danced around a word or two and then the conversation changed to a different topic. I later asked the person pointed to if they were swingers as someone claimed they were. Maybe I was just pushing an envelope or testing boundaries….but I was also curious to know the answer. As many more of a beverage had been consumed at that point, she just smiled, giggled and said, “I don’t know” all coyly and bashful and trotted off. Continue reading

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New Year’s Resolutions – Swingers Edition

New Year's ResolutionsWell here we are again!  Another year has come and gone and it is time to follow that time honored tradition of self introspection and improvement….The New Year’s Resolution!  Generally speaking, the New Year’s Resolutions fall, for most people, into a few well worn categories.

I will exercise more…..

I will lose weight….

I will be a better husband, wife, parent, etc…

I will stop smoking, drinking, shooting heroin…

You get the idea.  Most of us at one time or another has made one of these generic resolutions.  Hell, you might have even followed through and became a better person for the effort.  I’m certainly not going to try and dissuade anyone from trying to improve them!  The purpose of this site, however, is to help Swingers, new and old, get the most enjoyment from the Lifestyle possible.  No matter how long a couple has been in the Lifestyle there is always room for improvement.  Perhaps a New Year’s Resolution is just what the doctor ordered to help us on our way to better, sexier, swinging in 2013! Continue reading

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Fifty Shades of Christmas

Good Morning Dear….Now get on your knees….

With the holiday season upon us, it is time for The Swing Scene’s first annual Lifestyle gift giving guide.

The list of possible bedroom accessories is as endless as your imagination.  We thought with the recent success of the Fifty Shades book series we would make the theme of the first gift guide……. BDSM!

BDSM is a compound acronym for Bondage, Discipline, Dominance/submission, and Sadomasochism.  Don’t worry… sounds scary, but the truth is… it is what you want it to be. It can run the gambit from fuzzy handcuffs and lite spanking to latex body suits and nipple clamps.  Besides…what married couple doesn’t wish they had a ball gag every now and then?  If you don’t know anything about BDSM or don’t know if your partner is ready to give it a shot, put a book in their stocking and see what their reaction is!

We will start with the tame and work our way up….. Continue reading

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