New Year’s Resolutions – Swingers Edition

New Year's ResolutionsWell here we are again!  Another year has come and gone and it is time to follow that time honored tradition of self introspection and improvement….The New Year’s Resolution!  Generally speaking, the New Year’s Resolutions fall, for most people, into a few well worn categories.

I will exercise more…..

I will lose weight….

I will be a better husband, wife, parent, etc…

I will stop smoking, drinking, shooting heroin…

You get the idea.  Most of us at one time or another has made one of these generic resolutions.  Hell, you might have even followed through and became a better person for the effort.  I’m certainly not going to try and dissuade anyone from trying to improve them!  The purpose of this site, however, is to help Swingers, new and old, get the most enjoyment from the Lifestyle possible.  No matter how long a couple has been in the Lifestyle there is always room for improvement.  Perhaps a New Year’s Resolution is just what the doctor ordered to help us on our way to better, sexier, swinging in 2013! Continue reading

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Fifty Shades of Christmas

Good Morning Dear….Now get on your knees….

With the holiday season upon us, it is time for The Swing Scene’s first annual Lifestyle gift giving guide.

The list of possible bedroom accessories is as endless as your imagination.  We thought with the recent success of the Fifty Shades book series we would make the theme of the first gift guide……. BDSM!

BDSM is a compound acronym for Bondage, Discipline, Dominance/submission, and Sadomasochism.  Don’t worry… sounds scary, but the truth is… it is what you want it to be. It can run the gambit from fuzzy handcuffs and lite spanking to latex body suits and nipple clamps.  Besides…what married couple doesn’t wish they had a ball gag every now and then?  If you don’t know anything about BDSM or don’t know if your partner is ready to give it a shot, put a book in their stocking and see what their reaction is!

We will start with the tame and work our way up….. Continue reading

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Swinging Vacations II – Lifestyle Cruises!

Can I Drive?

Can I Drive??

Ahhhh…there is nothing quite like a cruise!  The blue water, the salty air, the live music on the pool deck, the naked people glistening with suntan lotion…. Wait, what was that?  Naked people!  Yes there are very few places that rival a cruise ship when it comes to Lifestyle vacationing.  There are almost as many different options on the water as there are on dry land.  There are small groups being organized all the time, and usually two or three times a year they will book entire ships!  Imagine, if you will, 2,000 to 3,000 swingers loose on a ship with absolutely no “vanillas” around.  Crazy fun times!  If you have the money or can get the right small group together you can even charter yachts to ferry you and your merry group of naked friends around the islands on your own itinerary.  Yes, there are charter companies who cater exclusively to the Lifestyle community.  So with that in mind, let’s explore a few options in more detail.  We will work our way from the most basic to the most outlandish in Lifestyle cruising. Continue reading

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